WEEK-IN #28
Half-Extrovert
Introvert, Extrovert. We all fall into one or the other. Depending on the people we talk to or the situation we are in, that might change. But, we all lock onto one of those based on how we converse with a stranger we met. Conversing doesn't mean what you talk about, but how to take that talk forward to make it a two-way conversation. I am not an Extrovert but have seen some interesting conversations on how to talk comfortably with an Extrovert (I still don't have the answer for the other half of conversing with an Introvert. This might at least help for half of the problem.)
It's simple, yet feels complicated for an Introvert. When an Extrovert asks you a question, answer genuinely. That's it. Problem solved. You might be thinking," Ah! We already do it. That doesn't solve anything." Nope. You answer those questions, but not genuinely. There's a difference. Let's say, you have met one of your friend's friend for the first time and you three are having a meal. The new guy asks you," How's the food? You like it?." You say," It's good." Chapter closed. Conversation ended. But, that was never your genuine answer. Instead, elaborate it to something like," Tastes fine, but would like it to be a bit spicier. You like it this way?" A comfortable conversation. Tension eased, prolonged talk. Good for you, good for everyone around you too.
I might not have answered even half of the problem, but I feel like a part of the whole equation had taken a step forward. If you don't like to share everything about yourself, make it short. But, never give a general answer. A person is asking your opinion cause they'd like to make the mood lighter than sitting stiff and staring at their plate. As always, smile up wherever you are!
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