BeginGreat

Our day goes through well. Everything executes smoothly as expected. Tasks done, Health's fine, Emotion's good; and then BOOM comes a problem. It'll be more of a conflict on whether you should solve it the way your thoughts perceive, or is there a different way. If you are pro at overthinking, your brain conjures up ten different solutions to that problem and you are unable to decide. Brain function overloads, you stop looking at all other tasks, tension kicks in, deadline looms by (Though there isn't one and this too is one of the tricks of your overthinking). Hence comes a helpline. Call someone else for a solution. Many don't even go through the helpline step cause they want to desperately solve it themselves. Yet, bringing someone else to the solution has always been helpful for me. So, Good; at least step 1 is done, The issue comes at step 2. You explain the problem to your friend (and also your perspectives) and wait. They go through all that, and come up with...

 By their side How could you help a person? For most of the problems we have, we feel that's supporting financially. That's great when you are not able to spend enough time on their support. So, the best way to support a person is by being on their side and giving them your time. Of course, everything I've said is subjective to the person, the problem they have, what they are expecting. Still, time is always better. I won't say that the more you support financially, the less time you could give them. But, the kind of situation always matters. You give Rs.2000 to a 5-year-old child and expect him to be happy? Everyone's needs are a bit different every single time, and you first have to understand their need and then think of how to support them. Of course, you only have 24 hours a day and you also have to work on your own stuff. That is the reason everyone needs a bit of your time for their support, cause time's finite. Anything infinite is gonna lose its value. ...