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Most of us lack the below quality, and that feeds onto our time and health. It’s tough, but needed.  Rejection I’m not talking about you having to eat veggies for meal and you say NO (That’s straightforward. I’d say NO to veggies all day everyday). I’m talking about the work you get and your pride’s at stake. That’s a war. You don’t like to do it, but you also don’t like to reject something a person had trusted you with. You crumble internally every single time.  Of course, there a boatload of books on this topic explaining Why, How and When to say NO. As I’m lazy (as always), I’ll try to bring out a short answer from my past experiences. As always, this might not work for everyone, but most can relate and try it out.  My go-to would always be to pick the one I’d love to do, and say NO to the other. Let’s say if it’s Badminton or Cricket. That’s a NO to cricket for me (Ahh! wait wait.. I’m not so good at cricket. Don’t assume that I hate cricket). That was simple, right? ...

Here comes the unknown.  Confusion Topic isn’t particularly unknown. This is actually know to every living being on this planet, from a dog getting confused whether to bite you or bark at you, to a human getting confused whether to run away or be a macho (That is gonna end up at “Runaway” anyways). The real unknown is the option to pick from the two.  Every single decision we take will have a hell lot of options. We bring those down to two almost every single time. The option which feels Logical and the option which we get connected to Emotionally. A lot of people would suggest the simple solution of picking the Logical option. I used to be one of those. But, Neglecting the Emotional option is gonna eat your mental stability slowly. Yet, neglecting the Logical option is never a great idea (You all know why). You keep searching for a middle ground and will stop doing everything else. And, that’s even worse than dog biting you.  First point always to accept is, there is no ...