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WEEK-IN #35

Multiple Factors We consider factors while picking an option from a list for a problem. If you want to go out to eat, you might consider the Weather, Traffic, Time of the day, etc. We always filter out using factors that influence our mood. The issue arises when it is a difficult problem and a hell lot of factors are involved. Why is that an issue? Let's say you would like to pick a course to study. The list of factors might be "Do you like the course", "Will the course be helpful for my career", "Should I be picking a different course for the career I'm currently pursuing", "Should I change my career as per the course", "Am I even capable of changing the course later on". The list goes on and on. In such cases, we tend to strip[ everything down to one factor and move on. That works fine in certain situations as we humans tend to simplify stuff. But, Is that fine always? For example, you see an accident happen to a stranger whil...

WEEK-IN #33

The Best Decision This is the pathway to pick the right decision in any circumstance. Once you complete reading the blog, the right choices pop up everywhere you go and can easily be differentiated from wrong decisions. And, that starts which scraping off this paragraph. Yes! The above paragraph is pure fantasy cause there is no right decision. There never was and there never will be as there will always be a better decision than what you have picked. Always. If you would like to eat healthily and pick one, there will always be a healthier food you have overlooked. Pick a course to pursue, there will be a better one out there. Whatever you choose, there will be a step ahead of you that you haven't climbed. So, what to do. We tend to move away from such seemingly impossible tasks and let others choose. One choice at a time, we move away. In no time, others start controlling everything. The very first thing you should do is Choose. Whatever it is, however scary it might look, Choose....

WEEK-IN #12

 The part we all lack. Your Mistakes It is not that you lack doing mistakes. We do hundreds of mistakes every single day. We all lack the part of accepting the mistakes. The moment you realize that the situation didn't go as you've planned, your brain starts analyzing the decisions taken by everyone around you and picks the mistakes to the minute detail. The very point we miss is, whatever happens in our life is due to the actions we make, at least to some extent. The moment you change these actions, the outcome differs by a mile, cause you are the only one who could make such a huge impact on your life. This is complicated to understand just through words. Let's take an example. A couple of days ago, I got a call from a stranger stating that they need A- blood for one of their relative's surgery. I've told him that it had only been a month since I've recovered from COVID and asked him to get it confirmed that I can donate. The next day, he called me to inform m...

WEEK-IN #7

Here comes the unknown.  Confusion Topic isn’t particularly unknown. This is actually know to every living being on this planet, from a dog getting confused whether to bite you or bark at you, to a human getting confused whether to run away or be a macho (That is gonna end up at “Runaway” anyways). The real unknown is the option to pick from the two.  Every single decision we take will have a hell lot of options. We bring those down to two almost every single time. The option which feels Logical and the option which we get connected to Emotionally. A lot of people would suggest the simple solution of picking the Logical option. I used to be one of those. But, Neglecting the Emotional option is gonna eat your mental stability slowly. Yet, neglecting the Logical option is never a great idea (You all know why). You keep searching for a middle ground and will stop doing everything else. And, that’s even worse than dog biting you.  First point always to accept is, there is no ...