WEEK-IN #13

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 Irreversible mistakes.

Mistakes in Anger

This is more of an Add-on to WEEK-IN #5 with an example. I keep saying that Anger doesn't solve any issues, but even I do breakout once in a while. These thoughts are more of learning to suppress even those situations.

One of my friends was doing a task that makes total sense from their end but doesn't make any sense from the situation's end. The Anger is triggered when the person was doing the same thing again and again even after explaining that the very decision isn't going to do any good to anyone. Now, it's common that if a person keeps repeating the same task and you could clearly see that it's not a great decision, and if the person doesn't listen to what you say, you force them to do what's right through Anger. Adding to that, you justify yourself that you've done the right thing cause it's for their own good. Correct? Nope.

Every time you give out your anger, you put a dent into this universe which is Irreversible. Justifications don't work at all. That dent is going to be present as long as you keep breathing. In my story, the very next moment I yelled at the person, I've regretted my decision. The worst part, I did the same thing twice in a week with the same person. That might have served the purpose in the shorter run, but any action forced onto someone doesn't serve anything in the longer run.

What I could've done is far more reliable. I do know how my friend thinks. Thinking from other's perspectives is what differentiates you from most of this world. I could've explained everything a bit more calmly and I'm pretty sure my friend would've understood what I'm trying to portray. You understand your friends almost to the fullest, and showing your anger to one of your best ones is the worst emotion.

The only situation where you should show your Anger is when a person's life is on the line, and your anger is the only thing that saves the person's life. Nothing's important than a human's life. Apart from that, don't even think of justifying your Anger. You yell at your close one, you've stepped down in your life.

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